Reality check!!! i got into a come we stay marriage with lots of issues! Got pregrant out of wedlock then forced myself into his life with hopes of being happy but as King Solomon puts it ” its like chasing the wind”. Yesterday’s sermon was a reality check for me coz have been hoping that my husband would complete me…make me happy, affirm me and maybe find my identity in him but God has taught me that it all starts with me….that for me to find the one i need to have found myself!! I have found the solution to my life’s problems…….stop searching for the one be the one!!! with God’s help my hubby is in for a surprise!!!! I have changed my focus no more petty fighting, complaining and some time nagging as Leah said it ” this time, I will praise the Lord……. Thank you Lord.