What if you have been waiting for healing and it has not happened? Does it mean marriage is for perfect people? I keep wondering what a whole person looks like so that i can tell how i should look like to be accepted by a man. I thought we are all in a journey….and if along the way someone comes and they accompany you and you them on that journey then great. Do we have to be ‘whole’ for us to get married or marry? Is this healing an event? How do you know you are healed so that you can be the one? All very confusing!