Thanks for that message.
You’ve lifted an enormous burden off the shoulders of lotsa bro’s & sistas.
You see, often times we meet individuals with whom we are attracted to, and just like Jacob, we pursue them with all we have. But ultimately disappointment follows conquest simply because impossible standards have been set.
Sometimes it feels like to please some ladies, one has to be a small god. You’re judged against an unknown and ever-changing standard, accused of sins we’re yet to imagine and even likened to people you’ve never met.
I’m sure ladies can confess similar stories of us guys. And like you say, it all boils down to wronfully expecting someone else to magically ‘fix’ you in the name of love.
I must also say I have found your teachings to be true. The prescence of a woman who is happy and joyous in her own being is so refreshing, whether as a companion or a friend. Likewise, I have found that the more comfortable I am in myself the better I relate to women.
I look forward to next weeks message.
Barikiwa.